I am surprised that Vanity Fair made this video and published it on their web site. To me it’s a sign of further penetration of swinger lifestyle into the mainstream social life. The brief video guide (supposed to make you laugh in the process) addresses some of the common questions newbie swingers encounter at their first swinger party: how to approach another couple, not to eat food at a swingers party and how to make sure you don’t run into your boss and his wife. Rather entertaining! Meanwhile, I suspect the authors have not been to many real swingers parties. I have yet to attend a masked party, never been to one since we started 12 years ago. Is anyone really hosting masked swingers events?